Shared by Ma Haoyuan

Ma Haoyuan 2015.9.30

        Hello everyone, my name is Ma Haoyuan, and I am currently a freshman at Nanjing University of Telecommunications Engineering. Today I am here to share with you some of my experiences and thoughts about the education I received from Teacher Ding. I hope you like it.

        I went to junior high school at the Affiliated Middle School of Chang'an University in Xi'an. At that time, I was a typical gangster in the eyes of teachers and classmates. I often gathered and bribed some senior students to help me fight. A few months before I came to Teacher Ding, the school had contacted my parents many times and persuaded them to take me home. My mother felt desperate at that time. It happened that she heard the news about Teacher Ding at this time. Later, my mother met Teacher Ding and finally decided to send me to Teacher Ding for education. I came to Teacher Ding in the second half of the second year of junior high school. Of course, since I was a gangster, my academic performance was even more imaginable.

        Before I came to Teacher Ding, I only knew 24 of the 26 English letters and never passed math. My last mock test before I came to Teacher Ding was 36 points, and my grade ranking was among the last few in the school. Then, a miracle happened. After studying with Teacher Ding for only one and a half months, I scored 96 points in math in the school monthly exam, ranking third in the grade, and 78 points in English. Both subjects were scored on a 100-point scale. These changes in grades can be found in the school's academic record book that year.) What's interesting is that my teacher questioned my grades at the time and thought I plagiarized my classmates. I asked the teacher at the time, I was ranked last in the grade, and the grades of the students sitting next to me were not good. Looking at the students around me, who should I plagiarize and who should I plagiarize to get this grade? The teacher thought about it and let the matter go. In the second exam, my math was still at the top of the grade, and I ranked first in the grade in physics this time. At this time, the teacher really recognized my progress and felt extremely incredible about my progress and achievements. Through me, my head teacher got to know Teacher Ding. After discussing with Teacher Ding about the issues of educating children, my head teacher said, "I finally know the reason for your huge change". Studying and living with Teacher Ding, not only did my study, personality and psychology undergo huge changes, but the physical changes were even more earth-shaking. I have always been in poor health since I was a child and often had nightmares. When I came to Teacher Ding, I was 14 years old, 140cm tall and weighed only 60 kilograms. Two months later, my weight soared to 110 kilograms, an average of almost one kilogram per day, and my height grew by 20 centimeters in a year. Whenever I tell others about this, many people don't believe it. If it hadn't happened to me, I wouldn't believe it either. But to be honest, in the environment where I and my classmates live, this kind of incredible or miraculous thing in the eyes of others happens almost every day. You can see specific miracles happening one by one from the achievements shared by other children. As for how these miracles happen to us, whether in study, psychology or physical health, although I have some insights, I am still worried that I have not expressed it well and have not summarized it adequately. So if students and parents are willing, you can still read Teacher Ding’s articles and videos. I believe that Teacher Ding’s explanation will make you suddenly enlightened.

        In the third year of junior high school, I often ranked first in the grade in physics, and always ranked among the top in mathematics and English. In the mock exams before the high school entrance examination, I scored around 110 points in each subject. I was admitted to our local Gaoxin No. 3 Middle School with an excellent score of 570 in the high school entrance examination. When my mother received the admission notice from Gaoxin No. 3 Middle School, she jumped and jumped in the house until the neighbor downstairs came to see what happened in the house. When my mother saw the neighbor, she hugged him and shouted, "My son was admitted to Gaoxin No. 3 Middle School!" Gaoxin No. 3 Middle School is a public school in Gaoxin Middle School. The tuition fee is only 800 yuan per semester. For my family with limited financial resources, this is like pie in the sky, and its teaching quality is not inferior to Gaoxin No. 1 Middle School. You can imagine how excited my mother was that I could go to this school!

        After the high school entrance examination, I left Teacher Ding's school, but the changes in my physical, mental, learning and learning ability are unquestionable, and these abilities have been with me in my study and growth today and in the future. Compared with other students, I now think that I am more motivated, more confident, and more efficient in learning. This year, I was successfully admitted to Nanjing Institute of Telecommunications Engineering in the college entrance examination (my college entrance examination experience also benefited from the precious time I spent with Teacher Ding, but due to limited space, I will have another opportunity to share with you my wonderful and tortuous experience during that time).

        Looking back now, I am really lucky. From a student abandoned by school and with physical disabilities to the enthusiastic, cheerful, confident and healthy me now, all these changes started with the education of Teacher Ding. This is the most important moment in my life: I am grateful to my parents for allowing me to study here and for their unconditional support and cooperation with Teacher Ding. I am grateful to Teacher Ding for reshaping my life and changing my future.

        If you have any questions or would like to contact me, please contact Feidu Education and they will give you my contact information. Thank you.

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Teacher Ding's comments:

        As far as study is concerned, judging from Haohao's grades before he came, his average score in each subject was 20 to 30 points, which is not bad at any place. Judging from his condition at the time, the domestic high school entrance examination was an almost impossible task. After graduating from junior high school, the child's future was really difficult to predict.

        Later, his high school entrance exam results were all AAlthough the whole A Xi'an High-tech No. 1 Middle School and Xi'an University of Technology Affiliated Middle School It is not a difficult height for students to reach, but compared with the state before Haohao came, the improvement is undoubtedly huge. During the one and a half years of study and life, the child has become stronger physically, more positive mentally, and his academic performance and self-study ability have improved. It has really made me realize“An education that changes your child's life”Keeping with his promise, Haohao is now studying at Nanjing University of Telecommunications Engineering and is confidently walking on the right path of self-improvement.

        However, I would like to explain another point: When Haohao came, what impressed me most was his physical condition: 14 The 18-year-old boy was still growing. He had a big head and a small body. He looked thin and deformed. I was deeply moved. To be honest, when I saw this child, I was so sad that I almost cried. When his parents talked to me about the child's situation, They never mentioned the child's physical condition, let alone the child's thoughts and psychological state. They just heard that I was improving the child. There are many such pathetic parents in China today! They ignore their children's physical and mental health, and only care about the grades that can bring them vanity! (I am not I am not criticizing Haohao's mother, but criticizing a social phenomenon. Similarly, I am not saying that learning is not important. Learning is very important for students. I talked about this in my lecture on educational philosophy). What I mean is that if Haohao keeps 140 Height,60 If a boy weighs only 100 kilograms and has an extremely unhealthy body, how can he establish himself in this society in the future? How to marry and have children? As a parent, when your child cannot have both the bear's paw and the fish and must make a choice, what is the most important thing? For a boy, would you choose health or grades at the expense of health? This multiple-choice question is very important for thinking. This is self-evident to normal parents, but in my educational career, I have seen too many parents who chose the wrong answer. Our parents are sometimes so confused.